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Custody disputes can be stressful and emotional. Every decision can affect your relationship with your child. Indiana courts base custody decisions on the child’s best interests. Knowing which behaviors to avoid can help you protect your bond with your child and present yourself positively during the case.
Avoid speaking negatively about the other parent
Avoid criticizing your child’s other parent. This applies when you talk with your child, speak with friends or family or post on social media. Indiana courts often look unfavorably on parents who try to damage the relationship between a child and the other parent.
Judges want to see parents who support healthy co-parenting whenever possible. Speaking negatively about the other parent may suggest that you will not encourage that relationship. Your child should not feel pressured to choose sides or become involved in adult conflicts.
The same rule applies to social media posts, text messages and emails. Assume that anything you write or say could appear in court. Even online comments made in frustration may become evidence during your case.
Do not violate existing court orders
If the court has entered temporary custody or parenting time orders, follow them carefully. Missing exchanges, denying parenting time or keeping your child longer than allowed may seriously damage your credibility. Judges expect parents to respect court orders and follow the legal process.
Even if you believe the current arrangement is unfair, do not ignore the order. Instead, ask the court to modify it if circumstances have changed. Ignoring the legal process may weaken your position.
Avoid introducing new romantic partners too quickly
Dating during a custody dispute is not prohibited. However, depending on the circumstances, introducing a new romantic partner too soon may raise questions about your child’s stability during the case.
A stable routine often helps children adjust during a custody dispute. If you begin a new relationship, consider waiting before introducing that person to your child until your custody matter becomes more settled.
Do not neglect documentation
Keep records of important events, expenses and parenting time. Save information about visitation schedules, communication, child-related expenses and any significant incidents. These records can help clarify disputed events and support your position if disagreements arise during the custody case.
Protecting your relationship with your child
A custody dispute requires careful decisions and thoughtful actions. Avoid speaking negatively about the other parent, follow court orders, introduce new relationships carefully and keep thorough records. These steps can support your custody case and show your commitment to your child’s well-being.
Indiana courts focus on the child’s best interests. Demonstrating maturity, stability and a child-focused approach can help show that you are prepared to support your child’s needs throughout the custody process.